Psychodynamic therapy

What is psychodynamic therapy?

Psychodynamic therapy is one of the oldest and most established forms of psychological therapy, with roots in psychoanalytic theory that have been significantly refined and updated over more than a century of clinical practice and research. Modern psychodynamic therapy is an active, conversational process focused on helping you develop deeper self-understanding and lasting emotional change.

The central idea is that much of our emotional life operates outside our conscious awareness. Early relationships, unresolved conflicts, losses and experiences shape patterns of feeling, thinking and relating that continue to influence us in the present, often in ways we do not fully recognise. You might notice yourself reacting to situations with an intensity that surprises you, falling into the same relational patterns despite wanting to do things differently, or feeling stuck in ways that do not respond to logic or willpower alone. Psychodynamic therapy brings these patterns into awareness, giving you the opportunity to understand them, work through them and make different choices.

A key concept in psychodynamic work is the idea of defence mechanisms, the unconscious strategies we develop to protect ourselves from painful emotions. These defences were often adaptive in the original context where they developed, typically childhood, but they can become rigid and limiting in adult life. For example, someone who learned to suppress anger as a child because it was not tolerated may find themselves unable to assert their needs in adult relationships, leading to resentment, low self-esteem or depression. Psychodynamic therapy helps you identify these patterns and develop more flexible ways of managing your emotional world.

Unlike more structured therapies, psychodynamic work follows your emotional experience rather than a fixed agenda. Sessions may explore current relationships, dreams, childhood memories, feelings that arise in the moment, or your experience of the therapy relationship itself. This flexibility means the therapy can follow whatever feels most important to you. Rather than focusing on specific symptoms, psychodynamic therapy works with the underlying emotional currents that give rise to those symptoms.

The therapeutic relationship is considered a central tool in psychodynamic work. How you relate to your psychologist, and how they relate to you, can reveal important patterns that mirror your wider relational world. For instance, if you tend to hold back in relationships for fear of being judged, this pattern may emerge in how you relate to your psychologist. Working with these dynamics in real time is one of the most powerful aspects of the approach, as it allows you to experience a different kind of relationship and develop new relational capacities.

When it helps

Psychodynamic therapy is well suited to a broad range of psychological difficulties, particularly those that are longstanding or have not fully responded to other approaches:

• Depression, especially chronic or recurrent episodes
• Anxiety that persists despite previous treatment
• Relationship difficulties and repeating relational patterns
• Low self-esteem and identity difficulties
• Unresolved grief and loss
• Longstanding difficulties with emotions and relationships
• Emotional numbness or disconnection
• Difficulties with anger or emotional regulation
• Psychosomatic symptoms
• Feeling stuck or unfulfilled without clear explanation
• Complex trauma and childhood adversity

Psychodynamic therapy is often particularly helpful when you sense that your difficulties have deep roots, or when you want to understand yourself more fully rather than simply manage your symptoms. It tends to suit people who are curious about their inner world and motivated to explore the connections between past and present.

It can also be a good next step if you have tried more structured or skills-based therapies, such as CBT or ACT, and want to look more closely at the patterns underneath your difficulties. Psychodynamic therapy is designed for this kind of in-depth work.

Similarly, if your difficulties are primarily relational, if you struggle with closeness, find yourself in the same kinds of difficult relationships, or feel unable to assert your needs, psychodynamic therapy provides a unique opportunity to understand and rework these patterns within the therapy relationship itself.

What to expect

Psychodynamic therapy begins with an assessment period during which you and your psychologist explore your history, current difficulties and what you hope to gain from therapy. This process also allows you both to assess whether the approach feels right for you. Your psychologist will be interested in your early experiences, significant relationships, losses, and any recurring patterns you have noticed in your life.

Sessions are typically less structured than in CBT or similar therapies. You are encouraged to speak openly about whatever comes to mind, including thoughts and feelings that may seem irrelevant, embarrassing or difficult to articulate. This process of free association allows material from beneath the surface to emerge. Your psychologist will listen carefully, offer observations and help you make connections between past and present experience.

In practice, a session might unfold something like this: you begin by talking about a disagreement with your partner. As you explore what it triggered in you, you notice a feeling of being dismissed that connects to a similar dynamic with a parent. Your psychologist draws your attention to this link, and together you explore how the childhood experience shaped a belief about yourself, for example that your needs do not matter, that continues to play out in your current relationships. This kind of moment, where past and present connect in a way that feels emotionally real rather than just intellectually understood, is at the heart of psychodynamic change.

Themes that commonly emerge include how you manage closeness and distance in relationships, patterns of avoidance or self-protection, unprocessed feelings about important figures in your life, and the way you relate to your own emotions. Your psychologist may also draw attention to what is happening between you in the room, for example if you tend to deflect from emotional topics with humour, or if you find it hard to receive empathy.

It is normal for the process to feel uncomfortable at times. Psychodynamic therapy involves engaging with feelings that you may have spent years avoiding, and this can be challenging. Your psychologist will support you through this, pacing the work so that it feels manageable and keeping the therapeutic relationship as a source of safety.

Psychodynamic therapy can be offered as a time-limited intervention, typically 16 to 24 sessions, or as longer-term open-ended work depending on the nature and depth of your difficulties. Sessions are usually weekly, and the pace of change is often gradual but deep. Many people find that the insights gained in psychodynamic therapy continue to develop long after the formal therapy has ended, as the capacity for self-reflection becomes a lasting internal resource.

The evidence for psychodynamic therapy

Psychodynamic therapy has a substantial evidence base that has grown considerably over the past two decades. Meta-analyses have found that psychodynamic therapy can help with depression, anxiety disorders, longstanding difficulties with emotions and relationships, somatic symptoms and a range of other presentations. Some studies suggest the benefits can continue to grow after therapy ends, which is sometimes described as a “sleeper effect”.

NICE includes short-term psychodynamic psychotherapy among the treatment options for depression. Some trials have found short-term psychodynamic therapy (typically 16 to 24 sessions) gave similar results to CBT for depression, and there is research support for longer-term psychodynamic therapy for complex, longstanding difficulties.

Some studies of long-term psychodynamic therapy have found improvements in people with chronic and complex difficulties, including some who had not benefited from earlier treatment. This fits the clinical thinking behind the approach, that deeply rooted difficulties may need longer, more in-depth work.

Online delivery of psychodynamic therapy is supported by clinical experience and research. The relational and exploratory nature of the work translates well to video sessions, and research on video therapy more generally has found that the therapeutic alliance, the key ingredient in psychodynamic work, tends to be similar online and face to face. The important factor is the regularity and consistency of sessions, which supports the depth of the therapeutic relationship.

Psychodynamic therapy at The Online Psychologists

At The Online Psychologists, psychodynamic therapy is delivered by those of our HCPC-registered clinical psychologists who have specialist training and experience in psychodynamic and psychoanalytic approaches. They bring depth of understanding alongside their wider clinical training.

Our matching process takes care to pair you with a psychologist whose experience and style align with your needs. Because the therapeutic relationship is central to psychodynamic work, finding the right fit matters. Whether you are seeking help for depression that has not shifted with other treatments, longstanding relationship difficulties, unresolved grief, or a general sense of being stuck, we will match you with someone who has relevant experience and who you are likely to feel comfortable with.

Sessions are typically 50 minutes and held weekly. Consistency of sessions is important in psychodynamic work, as it provides the regularity needed for the therapeutic relationship to develop and for deeper themes to emerge. Your psychologist will discuss the likely duration of therapy with you during the assessment, whether that is a time-limited course or open-ended work.

Online delivery suits psychodynamic therapy well. Some clients find that being in their own space, with the slight distance that a screen provides, helps them access difficult emotional material more freely. The consistency and intimacy of the therapeutic relationship can be maintained effectively through video, and the practical convenience of online sessions supports the regular attendance that psychodynamic work relies on.

Frequently asked questions

Is psychodynamic therapy just about talking about your childhood? No, though childhood experiences are part of the picture. Psychodynamic therapy explores the connections between past and present, but the focus is always on understanding and changing your current difficulties. Your childhood comes into the work because it shaped the patterns you are living with now, not because the past is interesting for its own sake. Sessions are just as likely to focus on a current relationship, a dream, or a feeling that arose during the week.

How is psychodynamic therapy different from CBT? CBT is structured, goal-oriented and focused on changing specific patterns of thinking and behaviour. Psychodynamic therapy is more exploratory and works at the level of underlying emotional patterns, unconscious processes and relational dynamics. Both are well supported by research, but they suit different kinds of difficulties and different temperaments. If your difficulties are clearly maintained by specific thought patterns, CBT may be the better starting point. If they feel deeper, more diffuse, or primarily relational, psychodynamic therapy may be more appropriate.

How long does psychodynamic therapy last? This varies depending on your needs. Short-term psychodynamic therapy typically involves 16 to 24 weekly sessions and can help with focused difficulties. Longer-term work may continue for a year or more and is better suited to complex, deeply rooted patterns. Your psychologist will discuss the options with you during the assessment and help you decide on an approach that fits your situation.

Can psychodynamic therapy work online? Yes. Research and clinical experience support online delivery of psychodynamic therapy. Research suggests the therapeutic relationship, which is at the heart of the approach, can develop well through video. Some clients find that the privacy of being in their own home helps them engage openly with the therapeutic process.